I ,just can't imagine anyone confessing having sex with someone other than their own spouse. In fact talking abut sex with your own spouse used to be a no==no. That's a good way to loose close friendship, I know, I am a great example. I once had this close friend, we were inseparable, until one day I asked him if he had ever fucked my wife. He acted insulted and said, "NO!" And I looked at him and said, "You should, she'd a lot better than yours." Don't understand why but we haven't spoke to each since.