I'm really trying hard to come to the right desision for me and our mariage. My husband Tod who's 29 told me two months ago he's going to abstain from sex for two years and become celibate, a desision he made after visiting our local church. Since then I've been masturbating almost evry day, as I love sex but hadn't wanted to cheat on him. We had a row the other night and I asked him why he was being so selfish. All he could say was "Use a fucking dildo until I tell you I'm ready again".
Now I'm not saying I don't want to work through this with him, but he's adamant his religious vows are going to be kept. Now I'm wondering if I should keep my marrital vows and have an affair with a guy I know fancies me at work. Wish I could figure out, what is for the best.