grow some balls and find new people
Divorce her you idiot. They are both clearly mocking you to your face.
For real, wtf?! Really dude? Dont let them do that to you.....its ridiculous and shows that you dont care about yourself. At all.
That's not embarrassing, that's disrespect.
Not suggesting you do this, but what I would do.
Would feed her some sleeping pills and once she is out, tie her to the bed. would make her my private bathroom for a week or longer. While waiting would invite him over. Baseball bat to the nuts for a start. tie him to a chair and take a few pictures.
Would let him know my intent for the future. Should I suspect this, or I see him near my home, her or her near him. Will capture him and tie him up. Take him to his parents home and make him watch while I kill his parents. Do the same for her, kill every fucking person I know she loves, while she watches.
Should either of them go to the police, inform them I hired someone I pay weekly. If I do not come with payment, they will come rape and kill her, do the same for him.
Now fuck with my mind and trust again. That's just me and my way of thinking.
you might be better off doing things different.
Divorce her and kick his ass from here to eternity. As poster #1 said, grow some balls!