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I look at myself in the mirror and see an attractice, slim, long legged brunette. One who regularly goes the gym and has always looked after herself. So why is it that my husband Jason wants me to sleep with other men. He started asking me a few months back and each time I'd ask him if I wasn't sexy enough for him, as his penis would become flaccid soon after I'd sucked it erect. His response was, he'd find it such a turn on and it would help him maintain an erection.

I'm no doctor and I'm not saying him watching me have sex with other men, wouldn't excite him or me for that matter. What I am saying, if I do have sex with other men would that not compromise our marriage and would I just simply want them to have sex with me from then on ??.

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# 18734 - by Anonymous / February 14, 2014
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by Anonymous on Feb 14, 2014 at 6:38 AM

The men who desire this, lack the self confidence to do the job. many are ignorant to what true satisfaction is. So letting other men have at his wife is the key. his hope is to watch and learn, thinking he may be able to do this one day.

I did this for a buddy of mine and his wife. he thought me being much bigger than he was the key. Huge cock means she would get more pleasure. Yet I used only a few inches to drive her nuts. Learning self control is one thing, understanding the female body is another.

Many woman have no idea what feels best, they are as ignorant as the men.

For women it starts in the mind. From there its hitting the proper places inside and out.

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by Anonymous on Feb 14, 2014 at 8:10 AM

I think it comes down to this: some people like to watch. Do you and he watch porn? Seeing it live is a much bigger turn on than anything in pictures or video. My wife found out that I like to watch girls masturbating, from watching videos together, and she added that to our sex life. She some times now gives me a great warm up show, watching her gets me almost blowing my load before she or I ever touch my cock. When she's done, I grab her and ravage her body in earnest--she and I very much enjoy it. We also write and tell sexual stories/fantasies to each other--often including sex with others. I think it would be exciting to watch her having sex, and that thought completely turns her on too, but the truth in the matter is this: neither of us knows if we could handle the other actually having sex with another person.

That is the only real concern if you both are up for it. Will your husband, who is suggesting this, be able to handle the knowledge that his wife has sex with others and enjoys it. Or should he join in or want a 3-some (FMF) later on, could you handle him having sex with another women? Jealousy is a genie that once uncorked is very difficult if not impossible to get back into the bottle, often times totally ruining what you currently have.

If you decide to try this, be careful and take things slowly. Maybe when your out with your husband do some flirting with a guy and see how he handles it. Another time actually let him see you kiss another guys, and if he's OK with that, then at some other point let him see you getting fondled, and if he can handle that then down the road a bit let him watch you give a guy a bj. If he can handle things long that far, I think he'll be OK with it.

As for you: once you start having sex with others, then you'll either love it and not ever want to go back to being monogamous or you'll hate it. How you cope with it will be up to your nature. You have to ask yourself: can I handle it, or will I be wracked with guilt from conflicts with my basic personal morality?

Any way you go will be a slippery slope. He's gotten the idea that he wants it--he probably got that idea from watching porn (one of the modern day plagues upon the world). If he's loosing his erection now from you asking why? Then there is some level of frustration you can associate that he is attaching to not getting that fantasy fulfilled, therein is an indicator that things are already heading to problems. He has built that idea up in his head to the point he thinks it's something that he needs to have in his life and it's causing sexual frustration now. You might say: "That's his problem." and you'd be right, but there are really no private problems in a marriage, every problem is jointly shared.

However you choose to go with this, there are very real and large risks of destroying what you currently have--something has to be done one way or another because what you currently have is eroding away due to his fixation on the fantasy.

I completely enjoy sex with my wife, and she enjoys sex with me. We will both fuck each other at the drop of a hat and have now for almost 30 years. We both choose not to include others in our sexual activities because neither of us know how we would personally handle it. It makes for some wild stories and fantasies though and we both enjoy the fantasy.

Good luck in your situation.

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by Anonymous on Feb 14, 2014 at 12:54 PM

Do a search , by story number, and enter 16539 for an instance of me in a stable threesome arrangements.

Your bf sounds like a cuckold. The basic idea is that a cuckold man likes to watch or hear about his woman having sex with a lower status man....that is why blacks are so often part of the cuckold thing, it is status, not sick size.....

If you love your man, that won't change, don't expect yourself falling in love with someone else. Confine your sex to when your man is there, don't establish anything apart from him. Young men can be very jealous, so watch out....if he can't handle it, it should stop. But also...even the first time, make sure the other guy fucks you first so that hubby will have be able to release all of the sexual thrills gained from watching you by having sex with you himself.

The very first time I took her from behind he had already screwed her missionary when she rolled over, buried her face in pillow and I climbed aboard....he was in rapt attention as he looked at me slide in and out.....after I came, I pulled out and dismounted off her left shoulder and he came aboard himself from the right....hard and ready to go......but in general, the other man should go first.

And DO NOT involve another woman. That is just sick in a cuckold situation....it should be all about YOU and YOUR HUSBAND......the other man is just an animatronic sex toy.....and for god's sake, don't kiss him---ever!!!!

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