I am a self identified lesbian and have been out since I was 16. Have has relationships and hook ups with 5 women and I am currently in a long term and serious relationship with a woman. But I find myself masturbating to only males and penis'. I can not and have not had a orgasm with another woman only myself and only to males. I feel like this is really odd and wonder what it would be like to have sex with a guy for the first time.

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by Anonymous on Feb 20, 2014 at 1:50 PM

Perhaps you should try it with a guy and see what you think. A little experimentation never hurt. My ex was a lesbian when I first met her back in high school. Then, after actually trying sex with a guy she discovered that she really liked it. (Shortly after that is when we became romantically involved.)From then on she considered herself bisexual. After that she graduated to being "bisexual, but prefering men." Around that time we were no longer dating but still close friends. I asked her once after she broke up with this girl that I thought was really cool why she couldn't maintain a healthy relationship with a woman and she told me it was because she always ended up "craving dick." I just laughed and asked her, "Don't they make toys for that?" But she said it wasn't the same. Being a man myself I just took her word for it.

When I spoke to her just recently she told me that she wasn't into chicks anymore and no longer considered herself to be bisexual at all, but was now 100 percent straight. So, I guess the moral of the story is that people sometimes change and you never really know for sure what you want until you try it. Just hang in there, kid.

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by Anonymous on Feb 20, 2014 at 7:40 PM

Thank you. That is actually really helpful.

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by Anonymous on Feb 21, 2014 at 7:31 AM

I have known several people that have professed to be lesbian or gay, but have "turned". For one thing, sexual curiosity about gay or lesbian relations is fairly normal and almost everyone, if they are honest, has a fantasy now or then. I also know several people that profess to be lesbian or gay and work very hard at staying that way, regardless of the fact they have gained heterosexual urges and attractions and are not really interested in homosexual relations any more--all because they, or even doctors, have labeled themselves as lesbian or gay.

So it comes down to your choice: do you stay with the label, or do you follow your interests? Only you can really make that decision, but sticking to a lesbian lifestyle with your professed interests seems a bit odd to me.

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