I've been with my husband for 10 years. The past 3 years I have been having a affair with another man I met when we had a rough patch (rough patch was my husband cheated on me once). He has found some signs of me cheating recently (3 years after him cheating) but no evidence leading to me doing such. I dont think he knows how long I have been or that I actually went that far to having a sexual encounter. My husband loves me, he trys to make me happy, he's great in bed and provides for our family. The guy I have my affair with is everything opposite of my husband, he sucks in bed, small penis but he gives me the affection of spicing things up that my husband doesn't provide. That drives me crazy over to him. I'm scared to get caught with my husband suspecting anything as he did at one time. I want to continue because I it fills the affection void my husband doesn't provide. The other guy has a wife at home and I know I not his only side piece. He has girls always around him because of his line of business. I'm not quite sure what to do. Part of me wants to move on and the other part wants to continue because they both make me happy. The guy I cheat with, I only see him about 1 hour every couple weeks. It's not the sex that gets me, is the affection and attention he gives me. What do I do????????