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It's interesting that you wanted to "confess" that. I suspect that given today's culture, you feel some peer pressure and/or you have some misgivings about this arrangement? But if you are sincerely happy, then it doesn't matter what the fuck others think, right? Personally (and I'm a male in my late 40s who married young and had 5 kids), I think a marriage like yours can work out just fine AS LONG AS the husband truly loves and cares for his wife, and she in turn loves him and shows him respect (which is a major felt-need for a man). And if a man truly loves his wife, that means he won't abuse her, or put her down, or neglect her. A man should make his wife feel cherished and loved. And if both want the relationship as you've described it, that's great.
It doesn't work out for a lot of people. In my case, my wife was a control-freak who also had WAY too many hang-ups about physical intimacy and stuff (partly due to wacky upbringing).
I think your life-style is awesome! Too bad all women don't think like you. I'm not impressed by the bible reference though. That weakens any argument as far as I'm concerned. If you cite religious reasons for anything, then you're just another deluded hypocrite. You can't base your reasoning on bullshit.
my wife is 10 years younger than I, she does what I ask. I respect her as a person wife and mother. Is very rare when she turns me down for sex of any kind. She works a job now that our children are in school.
I wanted sex the other day and she took half day vacation. She came home and we had great sex.
She always wanted a good home, husband and children. She does not want us to divorce and would do Anything to prevent it. She told her step father she would let me see other women if I had to. Just as long as I came home to her.
I respect and love her, so I would not try that.