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I live with my fiance and have wedding plans for November this year. We have great sex, but not like the sex I had with my ex.

He and I lived together and planned to get married. He made me feel so good and I feel so much love for him, he is like a god I worship. If he were to call me, I would be right back there. Our sex was mind blowing every time. I loved him to much I had orgasm while I gave him a blow job. He entered me and orgasm started immediately, and many followed.
Its not dick size at all. The two are about the same size.

We have sex and I love him, I don't worship him. I do things around the house and I work. My ex I would treat him like a KING. he wanted a three some, I said sure. My boyfriend now suggested something like this and I laughed. He wanted anal sex, I lied; No one has been there and that includes you.

Am I making a mistake here?? I doubt my ex will call me, he has someone and she is pregnant. I tired for him and it never happened. If I had I would be there now.

I have a sweet guy who treats me as good as I treated me ex. Should I enjoy the treatment?? get married??
Have toyed with offering me ex to wait for him. just be his mistress and not tell anyone.

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# 19275 - by Anonymous / March 13, 2014
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 14, 2014 at 9:44 AM

the ex is the ex, put him in he past and give everything to your current lover. As far as a thee-some, don't. It will change is overall opinion of you. Lastly, let the man fuck you up the ass.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 25, 2014 at 5:45 PM

(I'm 48, male). The ex has a baby on the way. If you start something up with him, it will end badly. It always does. But take a hard look at your current relationship. If you are truly just settling for someone but you don't have any passion, that's a concern. Ask yourself how you would feel if he said "let's break it off". If you would feel some relief, then don't marry. If you would be truly crushed by it, continue on.

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by Anonymous on Sep 25, 2014 at 7:13 PM

Please don't marry the guy your with now! You are going to end up breaking his heart! You are obviously still in love with you ex, you'll never be able to appreciate and your current boyfriend with all your heart if you're still in love with your ex. Just leave your current boyfriend and figure out if you want to wait for your ex or if you want to let him go completely out of your heart but don't there's no reason to keep Leading your current boyfriend on when you really don't love him.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 28, 2014 at 9:27 AM

DON'T GET MARRIED! Sort out your shit first. See a counselor, talk things out with your best "heart-to-heart" friends. Or just read these comments and think it through. For God's sake, do not get married under these circumstances, you are setting yourself and everyone else up for a really shitty, shitty time. You didn't explain much why your ex is your ex. If you worship the guy, why'd you break up? Did he break it off because...what? He felt smothered? The feeling wasn't mutual? He cheated on you, got her pregnant and feels obligated? Or are you remembering things as much better than they really were because deep down you want a reason to not get married, period? Don't get married unless you're sure that's what you want. Don't get married with a plan to be someone else's mistress. That's planning a train wreck. Not even talking about right and wrong (not on this site, lol) but about the shitload of headache you'd be creating. Marriage creates legal obligations and life complications, especially if it is NOT what you want to do! Thousands of people have tied the knot, thinking somehow the act of doing so will make all the doubt and reservations go away (same thing for having a baby). Not so! Everything you are saying says you are not ready to get married. Live with your sweet current boyfriend. Test the waters. If you already are, please kick the marriage down the road, and don't let embarrassment or "hurting his (or anyone else's) feelings" keep you from putting it off or canceling altogether. This is your fucking life you're talking about! Whether you hook back up with Mr. ex super sex or not, don't get married unless you are sure you want to be with Mr. sweet guy long term. I haven't even gotten into what is fair to him, I'm only talking about how happy or miserable YOU are going to be. Believe me, don't get married to someone unless the thought thrills you to your bone marrow. Take this advice from someone who knows from personal experience.

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