My boyfriend has no sex drive. I have a huge drive. I keep trying to initiate and he turns me down over and over. He's let himself go, I've worked to stay in shape but I still want to be with him. Out of hurt (rejection hurts)and desperation I went online and found someone who had the same problem. Except he did thought I was looking to be paid for my services. I didn't correct him. Things are really tough right now, kids and everything. Sometimes it's that way. I gave my boyfriend the money, said I found it in a old purse. He was happy. I feel like shit.