i serve in the royal navy and i have been married to my wife kerry for the past 9 years.we have always had a very open relationship and have always allowed each other to see other people over the years.a lot of people think we are mad but living the way we do has actualy made us so much closer.im away a lot of the time and yes i do have sex with other women when im away,and i couldnt expect kerry to sit at home for up to six months at a time with nothing but her vibrator to enjoy.when im home on leave ive watched and joined in with friends of mine(some serving with me)and some not,and ive seen kerry fucked,licked,have anal sex everything and i love it.kerry says the same and shes seen me with other women and sometimes will even join in and she will have sex with the women too.we both have a very high sex drive and being open like this is great for us both,as theres no jealousy or secrets.sometimes i will receive text pics on my blackberry of kerrys pussy with a guys cock in it, or of her sucking a guy and i love receiving them.kerry works in an office with guys and one guy has sex with her lots,hes married too,but his wife has no idea.i hope other people reading this may understand that sex is just a fun thing as when im home we make love,as theres a big difference.we love our lifestyle and as long as we have safe sex and not hurting anybody,whats wrong with it,and we plan to carry on like this for ever.