you have been betrayed. At age 18...big fucking deal, cry a gawd damned river, build a bridge and get the fuck over it.
This isn't the only set-back you will have in your life, there will be many, many, many more to come your way.
Experience talking but it sounds like that writer hasn't gotten over it yet so how does he advise you?
I worry about the shit I can control and don't give a shit about the shit I cannot control.
As Long as I can pay my bills and outrageous taxes, I'm good thank you.
Betrayal is a mutherfucker and it will happen often. Flags go up in relationships, you just have to recognize the flags and warning signs.
With changing morality people get vested more in relationships at earlier ages, and when they break it is more devastating than in days gone by. I take it you probably fucked his brains out for the time you've been with him and you think now that makes a bigger investment for him. Guys are very immature early on and sex to them is just dumping a load of cum and it calms them down a bit. They are not looking for life long commitment, and most will follow their dick--since that is basically what he's been doing with you--you were a good fuck to actually get enough of his time to stay with you long enough for you to consider yourself invested. You have several options, getting mad is just one, and will have no bearing on your ex-bf or the next girl he decided to cozy up to for some pussy. Just realize guys are not in the commitment frame of mind at 18--In the 100's of people that I've known only 1 HS sweet heart actually got married and lived happily together until death do us part. If you don't want to get hurt, then don't invest your entire emotional well being into a guy that is just using you for a cock docking--that means you have to make decisions on your own degree of sexual morality and stick to them: what are you willing to invest in a casual relationship? Think about it because that what all relationships are and 1 to 3 dates and you hookup with him thinking he's your one and only or he'll be true to you is absolutely ludicrous unless you both have similar moral background and commitments. It's a big deal to you, so you decided how much wear and tear do you want to take and how much emotional investment do you want in a casual relationship. When you go all-in and there is no commitment, then expect to have major heart break in your life. BTW:living together has proven time and time again to not be a commitment, but it sure does make it easy to get more pussy.
