i have been married for 28 years to a women or wife who has becoming like a fish, we haven't sex for about 2 years, its not that i dont want sex i just dont want it from my wife. i love to try many sexual things but she has told me no way, we fuck in one way, that is she just lays there and i am done. hate that she has never given me a blow job and eating her pussy is out of the deal i have turn to porn to jack off , which i hate because i need the real thing. as a real black male i have a good size dick to please her but i am not turn on by her sexual at all. we have never taken a shower together. i lay next to her and my dick does not get hard at all but if i see a women who i think is good looking and i see a nice set of boobs that are about to come out, i just become a real male, my dick is set to go. thinking about cheating , dont want to go to Craigslist because we know its not safe. i am sure i am not the only one in this boat. i love a lot of foreplay and love sucking of a women tits and eating pussy for a long time. what am i to do. wanting to find some women around the age of 25 to i dont care. thanks for reading