I'm having a problem with a male friend and need some help without losing him as a friend. We did the friends with benefits game for a while there before i met and married my husband and this guy also got remarried himself too. He has been acting obsessed with me until i flew off the handle on him. He felt horrible about his actions and hitting on me and promised to be a friend and stop acting like a dog. In all fairness, he thought i was liking the attention and that we were getting ourselves sexually worked up so we could go our own ways and have wild sex with our spouses.

I put my foot down to all his comments and grabbing me last week. He has respected my wishes, has been a close friend of many years, and i still have one problem and am not sure what i should say to him. He still calls me everyday and its an overkill!! The only person i want to talk to everyday, is my husband. He's bored and not working right now but him calling me everyday is so annoying and i am already ignoring over half of his calls.

It would be ideal if we chatted only about once or twice every other week, how do i get this guy to understand that?? I'm not looking to be a bitch but i am a little anti social and like it that way.