I am a 28 year old married female and I recently attended a bachelorette party. It got pretty wild with us all being drunk and having two strippers come to our hotel room. I ended up sucking both of their dicks along with most of the other girls, including the bride to be. The bride also got her pussy licked by the strippers too. We all swore each other to secrecy, but now I feel bad and wonder if I should tell my husband?? Have any other ladies on here had a similar experience and did you tell your significant other??

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by Anonymous on Apr 29, 2014 at 5:06 AM

I had a similar experience. I wasn't the bride to be but I was the maid of honor. And it was pretty much the same situation except it didn't start in the hotel room but down in the room that we'd rented for the male strippers to do their act. At least five of us went down on the strippers, then three (including the bride) had sex with them upstairs. The bride even got DPed. After a lot of thinking, I told my husband. I told him that I didn't have to tell him and that I could have gone the rest of my life lying, but that I loved him and wanted to be honest with him. Obviously it was a massive bombshell - the fact that I'd cheated - but it was also a bombshell for him that I'd had the guts to confess to him. He was really hurt but also really touched (it was a very weird situation). He ended up forgiving me when I swore that I'd told him the whole truth AND that I'd never, ever do it again. The problem is, I hadn't told him the whole truth. When I first confessed, he kept asking me over and over again "Where did the guy cum? Did he cum on your face? Did you cum in your mouth?". I knew that the truth would be hard to take, so I just told him that I stopped blowing the stripper before he ejaculated and that he jerked himself off onto my tits. Of course that was a lie. The truth was that he came all over my face and in my mouth (I swallowed). So not knowing the whole truth, my husband forgave me and we moved on. UNTIL the whole truth exploded a while later. While drunk, one of the other girls there that night spilled the beans about the whole thing (including the bride's DP) and the news found its way to my husband the following day. He didn't give a damn about the bride's cheating, but he was furious and deeply hurt that I'd lied about the guy cumming in my mouth and face. He said that I'd cheated twice - the first time with the act, and the second time with the lying half-confession. This was far worse that the initial conversation when I'd confessed because now, rather than me telling him the truth (and getting the credit from him for being honest) I'd be caught out. He then started asking what else he was going to find out, and would he wake up one day to discover that I had a string of secret lovers. So I knew that I had to do - I sat him down, told him to look me in the eye, and I then described the whole thing from beginning to end. The strippers, the lapdances, the oral, the cumming, how I sent texts to him while blowing the guy (yes, I did that too), and how I cleaned up my face and hair in the bathroom afterwards. When I'd told him everything, I said "Look at me and see if there's anything that I'm hiding. Look in my eyes and tell me if you think that I'm lying". He looked deeply, then he hugged me, then we kissed and told each other than we loved each other. Now I feel so much better because I know that there is nothing else that can come out. I never have to lie about it, or worry that someone might tell him something because he has already heard everything from me and he knows that I've now told him the whole truth. So my advice to you is to do the same. Tell him everything and don't hold anything back. If he loves you, it will hurt but he will be grateful that you respected him enough to do the right thing. And best of all you'll never need to worry about the secret ever again (unlike the bride whose husband found out in the WORST way in front of all his work colleagues). One last thing - I no longer allow myself to get drunk when I'm out with my girls!

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by Anonymous on Apr 29, 2014 at 5:16 AM

wish I'd read this a few years back. Same kind of thing except I never told my husband the truth. Again it was something where the bride-to-be was in on the act so we all had to swear to secrecy. problem was two of the girls eventually (quite a while down the road) ended up confessing to their men. One to her husband who had been her boyfriend at the time and one to her boyfriend who used to date one of the other girls. The married one said she just felt too guilty and had to do tell her husband before one of the rest of us did. I hated her for that because it meant I ended up getting confronted by my husband, but the truth is that I wish that I'd been smart enough to do what she did first.

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by Anonymous on Apr 29, 2014 at 5:32 AM

I hate to admit it but I was in the same boat when I cheated on my bf at my best friend's bachelorette in Vegas. As ever it was several of us in the bridal party sharing several guys. When I got back home I told my bf everything but definitely not out of guilt. I actually loved every minute of the experience with the guy in Vegas because he was so much bigger than my bf. The only reason I told him was that I didn't want to go through the rest of my life looking over my shoulder. I treated it like a murder scene with seven people involved One day at least one of the seven is going to crack, or get caught out or just leave evidence hanging round and then bring the rest of us down with her. I cut all that out and told him straight off. He forgave me and I haven't strayed since. Two years on we're still together and are getting married in July.

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by Anonymous on Apr 29, 2014 at 11:22 AM

To many people know, yes tell him and do it before someone else does.

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by Anonymous on May 9, 2014 at 8:38 AM

Wow you women are all sluts, I have a fiancé and I would die for her but if she didn't something as skutty as this never in a million years would I forgive her... You women are nothing but filthy ass skank whores and deserve a life of unhappiness

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by Anonymous on May 13, 2014 at 5:33 PM

You should tell him and all the other husbands and boyfriends. Then suck a diseased donkey cock as penance. What a stupid cunt you are.

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