My Uncle told me back when i was a young teenager that i was going to hell. At that time i was a virgin, did not smoke, never touched drugs, wasn't stealing yet, didn't drink booze, and i was living them them. He told me that i was going to hell all because i didn't accept Christ in my heart. Prior to moving in with them, i have never been to church. It made me feel judged and i was attending church weekly while residing with them. I will let God be the judge of that as i happily carry on with my own life now.

I wish i knew why Christians are the first to judge when they should be teaching or guiding.