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My husband works night shift and with three kids sex is hard to get. I took off at lunch for three hours to surprise him. The surprise was mine. When I came in I figured he was sleeping. I heard the bed sounds of sex. Looked in the room and he was having sex with his cousin. Had no idea what to do. So I left and came back to work.

I am steaming inside and wondering what to say, if anything. She is married and she has two children. Worried I may end two marriages with one argument.

Just don't know what to do, if you have an idea please let me know. Will check before I leave work

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# 20459 - by Anonymous / May 8, 2014
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 8, 2014 at 11:24 AM

use your heart in this one. Its pretty slim this was the first time. May be something going on for years.

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by Anonymous on May 8, 2014 at 11:46 AM

you should have got in bed with them. made him quit and gave her a tongue lashing. Then made him do her while you rubbed one off

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 8, 2014 at 11:52 AM

Obviously, you were both missing something in your lives with each other. I think you should give it a day to think about and let your emotions subside. There is no need to do anything rash if your marriage is otherwise happy and healthy.

After you calm down, you should sit down with him and let him know what you saw. After his initial panic sets in, tell him you have thought about it and would prefer to discuss this with him before making any judgements.

Ultimately, do you want to stay married? Is this worth working out to find a solution that works for you both?

Only you can decide that. There is no right or wrong answer to this situation. There is only the solution that allows you both to have your needs met and move forward with whatever your decisions are as happy adults.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 8, 2014 at 12:27 PM

I would tell him what you saw and if he isn't sorry and refuses to go to counseling, than I would kick him out and file for divorce

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 9, 2014 at 1:39 PM

I came home and found his cousin and her husband waiting. They wanted ot take us to dinner, their treat. I said nothing and they acted like always. Her husband acted horny and she acted right back. She told me I was lucky, her husband gets this way once a month.
They invite us to dinner once or twice per month. I wonder if this coincides with sex between the two?
I don't think I will say anything. He is very sexual and more than I want some time. I have hired someone to hack her cell phone. Will tell me when its at my house.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 12, 2014 at 1:30 PM

cousins have been fucking for centuries. He has probably been fucking her since childhood. Careful for what you you ask for dear. He wants to fuck his cousin, let him. At least you know "who" he's fucking, and he won't stray further than her. He won't leave you for her. I'm just sayin'.

Let us know how it goes.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 11, 2014 at 11:16 PM

my religion allows cousin marriages. let him. I agree with the one above at least you know who he is fuckin.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 31, 2014 at 8:46 AM

Be creative. Just out of the clear, say something like, "If I ever catch you using that think on someone else, I will cut it off." He He.
Or, Guess what I found out, "Your cousin has texted positive for HIV. wonder where she got it. Must have been sleeping around some."

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 13, 2016 at 9:12 AM

Pretty impressive how you stayed cool calm and collected. Certainly one of the few that do in this situation. I also think #3 gave sound advice. Your steps ahead if you think through this than just react.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 13, 2016 at 9:14 AM

Pretty impressive how you stayed cool calm and collected. Certainly one of the few that do in this situation. I also think #3 gave sound advice. Your steps ahead if you think through this than just react.

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