Last night I dated a new guy and we had sex. I try to wait and tell them, NO sex until I am ready. All but a few have got me ready on the first date. I know these guys think I am easy. The last one got what he wants and moved on. Have had a bf for months and every date, period or not, I get weak and give up.
I am Sexual and enjoy the act of sex. I just worry I will never have a guy take me serious.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 17, 2014 at 10:23 AM

you enjoy sex, the men like it 2.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 18, 2014 at 4:10 AM

Just find a guy who respects women who don't feel "respect" requires waiting some arbitrary amount of time to get what they want just because societal norms say that's what respect is. I respect women who do what they want, not what society wants.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 22, 2014 at 8:39 AM

You don't need to try and rush a "relationship". You should keep dating different men in order to find someone who is perfect for you.

Until you find that perfect guy, there is also nothing wrong to satisfying your sexual needs and desires. Finding your soulmate is not just about finding your emotional, intellectual, and spiritual match, but also finding a good sexual match.

I was a lot like you. I dated a lot of men in 20's and 30's. I tried not to have sex too quickly, but always gave in (not just to their desires, but my own). Some guys I dated once, some a few times, or even months. But, none were perfect and I knew it. With some, the sex was amazing and I am glad I didn't deny myself those experiences. I finally met my perfect guy, and we are everything for each other. He even loves to hear about my "naughty" past with all these other guys that I dated and slept with. He says it is all those experiences that helped make me the perfect girl for him.

So, enjoy yourself. Enjoy dating. Enjoy all the sex you can get. I have no doubt, there is a perfect guy out there for you, just be patient and have fun along the way.

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