what your going to read here is fucked up but true....when your young,in loves [or at least think you are] and believe you have the world in your hands you fail to see the obvious red flags that something is seriously wrong with your relationship heading straight into marriage.i will not nor will i ever say anything negative about my children who are now grown up and married with successful careers [knock on wood lol] but my ex-wife...let's just say that i hope we die at the same time so i could be there to see her try to explain to god above just what the fuck was she thinking to do the fucked up shit she did to ruin our marriage of 11 years with her LIES,LIES,LIES...i was 16 and she was 15 when we met and SUPPOSEDLY fell in love,hispanic idiots like us are rich in that old tradition of starting to grow up while still holding our entire life in our hands.she had our first child before she turned 16 blah,blah,blah...she was not a virgin [red flag number 1]...she said when she was 10 years old one of her uncles raped her [red flag number 2]...while pregnant with our child her father and grandmother threw her out i couldn't convince my mother at the time to take her in so the uncle she had accused of rape and lived across the hall from her fathers house took her in...he allowed me to visit her and he certainly never demonstrated any odd or guilt-like behavior EVER though my ex-wife seemed guilty and constantly lost in thought.soon there-after i learned to read these [red-flags] just by the way she shifted her eyes and averted any questions clenching her hands in nervouseness.one of her female cousins warned me not to get involved with her and to carefully observe my ex- wifes behavior around certain men including the cousins stepfather [another uncle] and mainly but MOST IMPORTANTLY my ex-wife's brother.incest is very common among hispanics dating back to the early 1930's in our lands of puerto rico,the hibaros [villagers] married their nieces and second/third cousins removed...a little later i'll tell you about myself and that very issue since of course i'm no little angel either lol...then there was former young female friends that told me about the bodega owner down the street and young boys having sex with them on the roof where she lived,they honestly included themselves admitting this all happen when they were little girls.one day my ex-wife felt horny and took me to this very roof right above her fathers apartment [red flag number 3]...i met the bodega owner whom according to rumors like to take young girls to the storage room in the back to fuck them in exchange for candy,ice creamm etc..supposedly my ex-wife was one of his little favorites.soon after meeting him and clearly noticing he liked to stare at the little girls who were in the store my ex-wife freaked out and stopped going to his store [red flag number 4]...i didn't meet her brother till after our second child was born and by then we had our own apartment.this motherfucker was huge and muscled tone [his inspiration was the hulk lol] and what i grew to respect about him and my ex-wife's older sister is they chose not to cover for her though by then it was far too late.did i mention that her brother was HUGE lets just say during a period of time that he divorced his wife back in florida he was officially homeless and my ex-sister in law who lived above us couldn't take him in because her husband didn't like the motherfucker and didn't like the way he stared at his own sister...he did the same with ny ex-wife but i let him stay with us.back to that HUGE THING...he liked to walk around the house in satin shorts [sorry dude i have two young daughters put your pants ON]....my ex- wife was on freak-mode whenever he was around with the whole shifting her eyes and clenching her hands [red flag number 5]....granted men tend to be proud when they have HUGE DICKS and he often made every effort to come in the bathroom if i was in there washing my mouth etc..purely a macho thing with hispanic men.granted it could also be interpreted as gay especially since he liked to show it off in my presence and seriously i'm game to do the same if only to let him know that i'm not impressed.it was during one of these macho/gay moments that he let a little hint out about how it must have been easy for me to get it all in his sister to which i replied yes i could but she wasn't a virgin.honest to god this motherfucker looked me right in the eyes and said...yeah,i know and she wasn't raped either.all the red flags were coming home to roost when he told me to ask his older sister upstairs about a certain cousin in my family,a cousin who had molested me when i was only 8 years old...my nerves were on edge and i began to drink heavily,long story short my ex-wife slept with the man who had molested me when i was young.how did i finally get her to admit to all the red flags...remember how i grew to respect her crazy brother and older sister well...her brother rented a furnished room not far from where we lived and told me to set a day and time to hide in his closet and just watch the fireworks.honestly at that point in time i wanted out of the marriage and was prepared mentally when my ex-wife left my kids with her sister and showed up in her brothers furnished room that consisted of a huge bed and a round dinette table with a lamp nearby.typical big-brother was in his shorts when she walked in and of course he got her to say quite casually that it was he who took her virginity when she was 13 years old in...you guessed it the roof.honestly i could have perhaps should have come out from the closet than but i was just too numbed and speechless watching him literally holding her face-down on the bed to fuck the shit out of her.truth be told he was twice my size and extremely thick practically lifting her off the bed everytime she felt him inside her....barely able to breath from the pain she pleaded with him to slow down and let her rest.you can imagine the scenario after they were done...with nowhere to run and my i don't give a shit about you and i'm done with the marriage she agreed to tell me the truth provided i vow to never tell our children...no her uncle hadn't raped her,yes when she was younger she had sex with the bodega owner,her two uncles and on..and on and blah-blah-blah...11 years too late i then was to realize i never knew nor had i ever really loved her...11 FUCKING YEARS.our divorce wasn't even cold in the grave when she met and married some other schmuck though i chose to remain single [still am] and made a complete 3/60 in my sexual preferences converting to bi-sexualism and finding my own sexual attractions towards very young girls my then 11 year old niece and a neighbors 12 year old daughter were the first of many young boys and girls to follow.life can throw us many unexpected twist and turns and i've certainly learned the hard emotional way to always expect the unexpected...THE END