You have to pay for sex. You can pretend it's for convenience, but it's really because you suck at life.
To the above commenter, you pay whether you get an escort, or whether you are married. To the OP, I am the same. I've been with six different women in the past two months. Meeting a hot blonde next week. Done everything under the sun, missionary, anal, cowgirl, rimming, doggie. I was with a sexy redhead yesterday who was a master cocksucker. I came twice in 90 minutes, and she swallowed both times!
Yeah, you keep telling yourself that you pay either way, but you are just paying for sex. A person with any social skills wouldn't have to pay. You suck at life.
Obviously you can't get a real woman and who would have you