Last night my wife told me that her boss made a suggestion to her.
He lives in a open relationship with his wife which includes that they are both "free" when they go to conferences an other job travel. Testing a possible sexual relationship with an empolye would fall into the picture. His wife dont want to know about it and it does not affect their relationship, only makes it more relaxed. They dont have sex less often, sometimnes even get inpired by the improved sex-drive the energy that the "affair" brings into their relationship.

It all make sense and relates to thoughts I have had on my own. My wife told me about it and didnt expect any interrest from me. She confessed she was excited by the suggestion/proposal but since our love is the love of her life she had no problem just to laugh about it all and leave it. My interest made us talk about it and some wine (since it was friday) made us "honest" in our wiev and ended up with good sex. I asked her after if she was thinkiing of her boss, but she wasnt:) She wasnt replacing the boss in our acting but she confessed she was thinking about what the boss didnt get... yet.

We will see where it all goes. My Idea is to put it in reflexion to anynomyous sharers on the webb, in a suitable forum where we all are anonymous and contiune our story. Sometimes a fantasy is the best form, thats hov we bot argue, but on the other han we all only live once...

Your comment, own expirience is appriciated!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 22, 2014 at 10:55 AM

The "open marriage" and don't tell is fictitious in most cases and is an attempt at avoidance of guilt. Many couple find that they cannot handle an "open arrangement", but once it is done, you cannot change that it has been done and you will have to live with it one way or another--and often it is through breaking up.

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by Anonymous on Aug 22, 2014 at 11:01 AM

Ya, I had a buddy that always said he had an open marriage and they agreed to not tell. The truth was that he couldn't keep his dick in his pants and his wife would cut his nuts off while he slept if she ever found out!

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by Anonymous on Oct 2, 2014 at 2:11 PM

If she wasn't considering it...she would have never brought the subject up to you. Now you just have to decide if it's the right option for both of you...especially since it is her boss and she would have to deal with him daily (not just on business trips)...

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