Well,let me start with that I'm a big girl....not many friends and I have a bad family...I do pleasure myself by rubbing my clot but I'm so afraid to put anything inside of me....it just feels weird...I can't orgasm anymore. I feel like I need something more I'm a virgin so I don't know. If tried to finger myself and it just feels weird up there....nothing to serious just. I don't know what to do. Its not a health problem . what is the best way to finger??