So my husband and I had our 15 year anniversary last month. Each year on our anniversary we give each other one gift, which is common enough. We have a rule, and we've stuck with it every year since we've been married, that whatever you're given that year you have to use it for it's intended purpose at least once, preferably before the next anniversary. Sometimes the gifts have been a little embarrassing, but we've always done it and I don't intend to break that streak.

This year, for our anniversary, my husband gave me a butt plug, a huge one, as thick as my calf at the widest part. I have never in my life had anal sex or put anything in my ass that wasn't medically necessary. So now, by our next anniversary, I have to train myself to take this monster of a sex toy in my ass, from not even taking a finger there before.

Next year I think I might get him the same gift.