OK, you need to keep in mind that we are only 5 years apart in age, and not far apart intellectually.

I am really turned on by intellegent men, and I always have been. Once I start engaging in intellectual debate with a man, it always turns me on to some degree. But this man is absolutely brilliant. We are engaged intellectually on an almost daily basis, and it gets me so hot! Sometimes, when we are really getting deeply into a discussion, I just want to tear his clothes off and throw him down on the desk and...well, you get the idea.