My mother and I share a humiliating time in our lives. I was 18 at the time and my mother had been dating Tony for over a year when he talked my mother into moving in with him. He had large, very expensive house and I had a luxurious bedroom with a private bath. We lived there almost two years before we found out Tony was not only filming me in both my bedroom and bathroom but also filmed my mother in their bathroom. He also had videos of he and my mother having sex. I am the one who found the videos when Tony and my mom went on a cruise. I discovered a large picture on his office wall with hinges that was not pushed close to the wall. In back of the picture were shelves with 32 videos, mostly porn. Ay first I wasn't to upset thinking my mom and he probably watched them together but then I found 9 of them with only dates written on them. The dates on the videos were all from the time we moved in until that time. The first one I watched was mostly of my mother showering and having sex with Tony.

Even then I wasn't totally upset thinking my mom allowed him to video her and him. Then I put in a second tape and it was all of me in the shower and in my bedroom. This jerk had been taping me all this time in my bedroom and invading my privacy most of all in the bathroom. Not just showing me using the toilet but there were times when I was tending to my period and even more embarrassing, showing me masturbating in the bathroom and most of the time while I was in bed. As I put in each one of these 9 tapes it was a mixture of my mother and me but also videos of 3 of my girlfriends who had stayed overnight many times. Some of the tapes showing my mother I couldn't even watch since Tony was also in them engaging each other in all kinds of sex acts. It was only the second day they were away when I found the tapes and I missed school two days that week. I wanted to kill Tony and thought about calling the police. That I couldn't do simply because so many other people would have to see them.

What I did do, was pack my bags and packed my mothers clothes. I put everything in my moms car the day they were coming home and as soon as they walked in the door I had the 9 tapes stacked up on the kitchen table. Tony's jaw dropped when he saw them and I couldn't help but scream and curse at him telling my mother what he had been doing. She went into a fit of rage and hit him a few times and we left with the tapes. We stayed at my aunts's house for a week or so then got our own apartment. My mother watched some of the tapes but we soon destroyed them. My mother worked for a law firm at the time and told one of the female lawyer's about it. All it took was a letter from the lawyer and about 3 weeks before my mother got a check from Tony for 125,000 dollars. The tapes had already been destroyed but Tony didn't know that. I never told any of my girlfriends they were videoed naked but for a long time I was so embarrassed not knowing how many times Tony had watched them or if he ever let his friends watch any of them.