I think back at some of the good times I have had over the twenty years my hubby served in the Air Force. I never thought of cheating on my husband until his first deployment for 4 months and I was left alone with my womanly desires to deal with by myself. I became lonely and went to the airman's club to socialize some. there were other wives there doing what I was doing. I started talking to an older wife and confided that I was frustrated with my husband being deployed. She said, "Honey get used to it! Just for your information, look around and you will see a lot of us frustrated wives making the best of things," as she giggled and continued, "Look at all the young guys in here who are away from their girlfriends for the first time. They are looking for some unattached attention from us wives".
I thought, "Wow she sure put it on the line".
It sure peaked my thoughts and about that time a young black airman approached and asked if he could join us. We both agreed and it was not long until I realized he was hitting on me. He suggested that we go for a walk in the nearby park. Well, that was my first time to cheat. We started kissing and then we found a grassy spot behind some shrubbery and had sex. This led to many more times like this over the 20 years.