My wife once stated:
"You have to earn sex."
Do women really think like that about sex?
Hell no. You should be with someone can't wait to get some of you.
Not if you're with the right person.
No.
She is simply trying to use that against u to control u. Don't fall for it.
And if she tries to make u feel like u "haven't earned it" act like it doesn't bother u one bit and and don't b sexual toward her just ignore it and she will cum crawling back to u
You tell your wife that your marriage contract includes the RIGHTS to sex...not the right to earn sex; withholding sex is a Juris Prudence basis for a divorce. Tell her you earn the money to buy groceries...which gives you the right to choose which piece of steak you purchase. So, if your going to have to earn the right to sex, you choose a divorce so you can sample all brands in the market place and,or stick with the one which is the most SATISFYING.
Sounds like she wants it rough. Play r**e. Hold her arms above her head and rip her panties off. Or take yank her pants off going rump the stairs behind her. Spit on her pussy, finger her a bit and shove it in. She's going to love it.