Just wanted to say it real quick. Dont really care who thinks this is BS or not. But, it does suck because I really have a hard time saying no and always try to please people.

I am married and we are swingers together. I also have a serious GF and another girl that I see. I love the GF, she is married and we are talking about leaving former lives and getting together. She has yound kids so a lot harder for her. She also has no economic positives. In the meantime I am really pissed at my wife for her affair with her cousin. (Jerry Springer right). She works with him and I asked her to stop twice before I raised a huge stink. My wife is a rich bitch and brings a lot to the table financially.

The new girl I see occasionally is almost stalker type into me but I do like her. We dated 25 years ago and she is a very rational choice if I want to move on. So, do I stick with the wife who is a alcoholic and sleeping with her cousin, stay with the GF that we connect with but would be tough, or go for the new gf who is financially secure. I am not looking to live off them as I own a business that does pretty well. Just dont want to support dead weight.

Any real responses or questions I look forward to. Sorry I didnt explain more. Wife left on vacation this morning early and I am trying to decide what I want to do....