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My wife of three years recently admitted to me after a few glasses of wine that she cheated on me at her bachelorette party. I knew that her friends had a male stripper come to their hotel room and that my wife had playfully grabbed his dick couple of times however she did not tell me the whole story at the time.

The playful grabbing she had told me about 3 years ago really meant she sucked his dick and let him finish in her mouth. She was crying and apologizing but I am thinking about leaving her because she lied to me. I might have been able to forgive her if she told the truth upfront. Should I leave her or give her a second chance? Also just curious how often other women on here have engaged in this type of shit at bachelorette parties?

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# 23008 - by Anonymous / March 4, 2015
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2015 at 12:31 PM

My question is, How many men on here are gonna reply to this pretending to be a woman.
My wife and a bi-sexual friend of hers made nude pictures of each other while their husbands were deployed with the military. My wife and I often sent nude pictures of each other. This one time the camera was in a different location, unlike previous when the camera, with time exposure, was always in the same place, on out bedroom dresser. I questioned her and she admitted that she and her friend had done this but confessed the friend wanted to make love to her but she refused. Just thinking that it did go further really turned me on and she knew it, so she wrote a confession here telling exactly what happened. She is dead now but I still have my doubts that anything other than taking pictures really happened. She knew I love to read stuff and she wrote it that way thinking she would satisfy me and turn me on. Therefore I am wondering if your wife wan't doing the same on you, but, before you start judging her and dreaming of separation, why not remember some of the cheating you probably did and just compromise.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2015 at 12:41 PM

And too, if it was her bachelorette party, she was not married to you therefore there was no legal cheating. So, consider what comment #1 said and think of your own actions before accusing her of cheating. What about yourself?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2015 at 1:33 PM

So she sucked a dick at her bach party big deal, shes worried youll leave her which means she regrets it. Dont be a selfish dick about it, try to use it to your advantage, make her do something sexual or give you a threesome to make up for it, get smart.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2015 at 3:05 PM

If you are going to leave her now, after 3 years, then it is you that has the problem, not her. She probably didn't tell you originally because she thought you would have booted her to the curb, and from what you say now, you probably would have.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2015 at 3:07 PM

I'd leave her, your marriage is a commitment and she shits on your commitment to her by sucking someones dick before you got married, then had the nerve to kiss you with the same mouth???? Fuck all that.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2015 at 3:30 PM

This is the poster. I would like it known that I have never cheated on my wife. That includes before we were married, as boyfriend-girlfriend and when we were engaged. So I have no actions to think about because I am an honest person and respectful of my wife. I agree with #5 . We were committed to get married at the time she sucked a dick at her bach party so she decided to completely disrespect me and that commitement. Drinking is no excuse either

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2015 at 8:31 PM

God I wish my wife would tell me something like this. Instead of divorcing her, I'd encourage her to do it again.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 4, 2015 at 8:33 PM

I agree with commenter 3. And 7.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 5, 2015 at 5:00 AM

Seriously? Don't give us all this shit about commitment when you're thinking of bailing over one indiscretion. That's just stupid! It's not like she's a whore. I understand that you're hurt about it, and it sounds like she understands that too. If you love her, then get over it. The "get out of jail free" card is in your back pocket. I'm not saying you have to use it, but it's there. People make mistakes. I love how some folks talk about their moral superiority, and yet fail to be the least bit forgiving. Cut her some slack! Unless you want out of the marriage for some other reason, this shouldn't be such a disaster.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 6, 2015 at 2:12 AM

Bro, only you can answer this one. First and foremost how is your health? Have you been tested for STD's? How about her? Next, how do you personally feel about trust in a relationship since that has been violated and may never be achieved for you with her again? You need to take an assessment of the entire relationship overall on whether it is worth saving or not. Include all the possible physical, emotional and mental aspects if you can. If it is worth saving you'll need to do everything possible as individuals and as a couple to move on from this in a positive way. Are you able to do it? Do you want to do it? What about her? What do you really want out of this marriage and why do you want it? What does she want and why? How can you jointly achieve your what you both want? What are your deal breakers? You need to step up the communications with her no matter which way things go and be deliberate in thinking this over. You can make this a positive and build on it. This includes forgiving her if you can do it, then put this behind you and make things work, which is easier said than done since this obviously won't ever be forgotten. How sorry was she? What will she do to make sure and how can you be sure something like this won't ever happen again? What will life with her be like, especially if you hold this over her. There is a lot of assurances and answers for you to get and if any one is not to your satisfaction it would probably be best to split. I've known couples go both ways after an infidelity of one. If you've had any indiscretions of your own now is the time to come clean and the both of you start from an even slate. If you've been true are you going to use this as a trump card in the relationship? Paybacks a bitch so does she realize it? I sense that you'd rather not salvage things and just break up.
Personally, unless she was really some kind of wonderfully hot wife and lover who would do anything to satisfy you according to your needs and wishes, I would have told her to hit the road and ended things.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 8, 2015 at 3:27 PM

Turn the page! If she did not feel guilt she would not have told you Let it go and be her stripper for life, and tell her so.

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