about 20 years ago me and my wife were not having alot of sex we lived in a small town.my wife had a friend and her kids would stay over from time to time just to give our friends a break.they had a 11 or 12 year old boy that would stay over he played with my son who was a few years younger .i noticed that he was staying over alot we would make him a bed on the floor in the living room.now every time he stayed over my wife would sleep on the couch in the living room .i did not think much of it as i thought she just wanted to watch t.v.but i noticed that she would only be wearing a skimpy nightgown she always wore that to bed but i thought if one of their daughters would stay over i surely would not be running around in my underwear and a housecoat.anyway one night i got up to get a drink and i saw her at the t.v. looking like she was changing channels but we had a remote ?i shrugged it off but later at work i thought things seem strange.was she fooling around with this boy i thought?surely not while i was in the same house?and i would go to work at 5:00 am and he would be there while i was at work .i did have a six sense thinking something was not right.i would imagine that when i was sleeping she might be having sex with him her on top so that if i came out of the room she could just jump up that would explain her being at the t.v. as it was right next to were he was sleeping.and when i went to work she could have sex all morning with him i thought god i must just be parinoid.so i thought well i will set up a tape player to record when i leave for work.but it was one of those small ghetto blasters and it made alot of noise hard to hear anything but the tape machine noises.i but i thought i could hear sex noises ?but it was not for sure proof.I thought of confronting her but what if i was wrong so i never did say anything.another thing they would shoot each other glances sometimes that looked to me like well something was up.maybe i can get some feedback on this am i just being parinoid?could a 11 or 12 year old boy have sex?could a 11 or 12 year old have a developed penis?has anyone ever had this happen to them?i do have a fantasy of her being with other men and had told her about this but i did not think or want it to be a boy.thanks for any comments on this matter