I'm 18 and have never kissed a girl, and though all of my friends both guys and girls have told me i could easily get a girl if i tried, I just don't know what to do, flirting is alien and never even enters my mind, even when i would talk to a girl i had, had a crush on for a year, i was just thinking about the conversation and enjoying the moment and it wouldn't be until she left that i would realize how beautiful and sexy she is. Furthermore the few times i ever built up courage to flirt or ask her or other girls out, i would completely forgot that, that had been the objective and just go about my day as normal.

With all this said, i've been asked out before and said no in complete embarrassment, and avoided the girl out of awkwardness just to find out years later we would be in the same classes together and i would be the one interested in her, who had grown much more attractive, and who now held an impressive figure, i would have never expected from her.

My point is i almost think there is something wrong with me, as i have always helped out my friends with what to do in there relationships romantic, sexual, or otherwise, and this is why they believe and can get with people if i wanted to, but for me, it never seems to be important until i am by myself or enjoying being with someone and talking to them about what it would be like to have a relationship, to have a connection