I lost my husband in an accident three years ago. I started dating a guy nine months ago and I have fallen in love with him. Nine weeks back I made the choice to let him have sex with me. It was not like with my husband before. It was uncomfortable for me. He has a thick one and its hard to take. We have great foreplay and he is a tender lover to me. I enjoy the sex but I have problems have an orgasm while he has it in me. The discomfort seems to over power the pleasure on my part. For the last three weekends at the end of the night I have allowed him to have sex every time. That means Friday night Saturday night and several times on Sunday.
But i am not loosing this discomfort feeling. Could this problem ever go away?