I just wanted to post this and share with anyone that thinks that these things do not happen, you are truly wrong. I am 27 years old, and had sex with my step dad two nights ago. It was not the first time we have had relations, nor will it be the last time. The first time we "did" anything, quite honestly, I was 12. Yes, I wanted to do it. I knew he'd fantasized about me, he'd openly admitted it, and I wanted to know what an experience was. You can ask/comment, and yes, I will tell you what happened. But I also will tell you, I was openly willing to give up my virginity to him when I was 13. He refused to have sex with me, even though I was on birth control pills, for fear of getting caught, someone finding out, having an accident (we would have also used other protection), or being labeled "that guy" if it ever came out. So the guy I did give it up to was a fucking asshole. I regret it to this day.

My step dad and I did "other" things up until that point, and I finally slept with him the first time when I was 16 (legal age in the state we live in). He told me that night that he loved every single moment of it, and that he hoped dearly that we would be together more than just that one night. I had no hesitation, and was willing to. There were several times through my high school years that we'd had sex the nights my mom was at work, and he admitted several times he was nearly caught, because when she initiated it in the morning after she came home from work, he could literally not orgasm, having done it one or two times the night before with me.

I am sharing this to simply tell people to stop thinking it's all a lie. My step dad is an incredible guy. My mom treats him like shit. But he stays because I have siblings that he wants to be a part of their lives, so he puts up with it. And I will share that we have sex at least once or twice a month. Do I regret it? No. The only thing I do regret is that we cannot physically do it more without fear of getting caught.

You can believe what you want. But he is an amazing guy. And I will continue to do what we want to do. Regardless of what others think.