- That's Juicy! 13
- Remove It! 0
I am a 55 year old married man with 3 children. Been married for 29 years. If you want one act to change your life potential, tell him. If not, I say shut up!
It's simple physics. For every action there's an equal an opposite reaction. Keeping it a secret is not an action. It's a delaying tactic. Eventually, you will either tell him or it will adversely affect your life and your relationship with your husband. Closing doors in your mind to keep things secret leads to other closing of doors, as you are reminded of what you hide by a host of other things, until everything leads back to the thing you are keeping hidden.
Don't let it go as a one night thing! That means it will hang in your memory indefinite. Just pretend it never happened. Your friends won't tell, after all they were there and probably just as guilty as you. Face it, you husband has not been an angel, I'd lay money on that, and he hasn't and won't in the future confess. So why should you? And yes, I am a married woman with 2 kids, been married for 6 years.
I wish I had you as my wife! I could get all the bj's I want and never have to tell my wife I had sex, because in your eyes, I wouldn't. Wow, that is so great. I wish my wife would let me get bj's when ever I want, she considers it sex though, so she would cave my head in, then get made and we'd probably end up divorced. Too bad she doesn't know bj's aren't sex.
#3 have you ever cheated on your husband? It sounds like you would have no remorse if you did
i am married man. I say don't tell. His pride will make him leave you. I promise he will, our egos as men demand it. You sucked a dick, big fucking deal. It happens. You did not set out to cheat, you love him. You got caught up in the moment. I am sure more people have done it then you know. just enjoy it as your last fling and be cool to him if he ever slips.
Just forget it, for God's sake.
So you had some fun, no relationships are perfect.
It won't dwell in your mind, like the silly children above seem to think. This is what happens when you get your view of the world from soaps.
The memory will fade with time, and you'll forget about it.
Don't even try to forget, it will be forgotten. Time does that.