So I've always been a very nice gentleman all my life I don't know why but I like to be nice and helpful to anyone who's in my life. This has been such a curse for me I am 33 years old I'm a straight male I'm married with kids my life has been complicated since I was 14 my family is stange I had sex with my oldest sister for years my other sister would come home drunk and ride my face all night then at 17 my mother and I started making love I've always been to nice to all of them I have bent over backwards for all of them and have got crapped on for it the strange relationships stopped when I was twenty but now I'm 33 and there trying to pursue me again I can't tell them no about anything how can I stand my ground I'm married I don't want to cheat on my wife she is my soulmate my one and only so for once I have to stand my ground and not be nice id rather lose my extended family then the family I have made with no abuse of any kind I'm breaking the cycle I wish society would discuss i****t more so younger people can understand it's wrong and pervent it but it's a topic no one talks about so when it happens to you your caught off guard and end up being abused please understand this i****t is a horrible bad thing I am messed up for life