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My Family
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Lesbian Female / 25
In college I got involved with my roommate, over time we did everything we could think of to have sex, and then some. The last three semesters we slept together. We never dated anyone, just each other. It was very lesbian, I even came out with her at a party and we announced we were gay and we were going together. No one cared, we were undatable anyway because we were living and sleeping together.
But after college, I went on a study abroad and a local man got through all of my defenses and took me down. I was a virgin and I ended up staying with him the entire time I was over there. I wrote to my girlfriend and asked her to come get me but we didn't have any money. So by the time I got home I was well used and I was pregnant, but I didn't know that until I was home.
We have the baby with us, we formalized our relationship, and we adopted the baby together. She is like our angel from heaven. I want another baby, I want to contact the father of my baby and see if I can get another one. The thing is, he doesn't know about his daughter with me. I just can't see how I could have a baby with another man, other than him. I couldn't even see myself clear to have sex with another man, much less let him get me pregnant.
I know that once you have 'been' a man, you are his for life. I know I am.
How do I call him? I left and was upset about the whole thing, and when I found I was pregnant, we just kept our mouth shut, and we went off and got into a domestic partnership. I don't know how he will feel about it. Will I be able to marry him? Will I have to move to his country? We have talked about it and we will go if he will take me and marry me and I can have a complete family. What options do I have? If I hadn't gotten pregnant I am sure I would have just stayed as his but let time pass, but with a baby and me wanting another one, we are sure the right thing to do is get married so I can have a whole family.
I will marry him, for sure. I know myself and I am never going to be with another man, he is the only one as far as I am concerned.
How do I break the ice? It has been two and half years since I last spoke to him.
But after college, I went on a study abroad and a local man got through all of my defenses and took me down. I was a virgin and I ended up staying with him the entire time I was over there. I wrote to my girlfriend and asked her to come get me but we didn't have any money. So by the time I got home I was well used and I was pregnant, but I didn't know that until I was home.
We have the baby with us, we formalized our relationship, and we adopted the baby together. She is like our angel from heaven. I want another baby, I want to contact the father of my baby and see if I can get another one. The thing is, he doesn't know about his daughter with me. I just can't see how I could have a baby with another man, other than him. I couldn't even see myself clear to have sex with another man, much less let him get me pregnant.
I know that once you have 'been' a man, you are his for life. I know I am.
How do I call him? I left and was upset about the whole thing, and when I found I was pregnant, we just kept our mouth shut, and we went off and got into a domestic partnership. I don't know how he will feel about it. Will I be able to marry him? Will I have to move to his country? We have talked about it and we will go if he will take me and marry me and I can have a complete family. What options do I have? If I hadn't gotten pregnant I am sure I would have just stayed as his but let time pass, but with a baby and me wanting another one, we are sure the right thing to do is get married so I can have a whole family.
I will marry him, for sure. I know myself and I am never going to be with another man, he is the only one as far as I am concerned.
How do I break the ice? It has been two and half years since I last spoke to him.
