I've basically turned my wife into a subservient baby breeder and gotten her to accept she'll likely be more often pregnant than not for many years to come. That's after forbidding her from using contraceptives ever again while accepting my sperm will be inside of her almost every day going forward, one way or another.

Mainstream western society and our conservative wider family (our own parents, siblings) will not approve and some relatives will even even have harsh words and negative things to say in time given that she seemed very career orientated before. I'm sure some feminist thought and even our liberal friends would damn me for taking us down this path. Hence this confession here.

This is even though she gets heavily aroused by my dominating her in this way, that I too enjoy immensely , and given that as existing parents we both love kids and want to raise them well. I also earn well so I can provide.

We have a good marriage and on the surface to others it even appears like she is the more senior partner, being more extroverted and outgoing than me, but in the bedroom I'm utterly dominant. The few times during sex I've invited her to lead for a change she's always become embarrassed or uncertain and not known what to do to the point I had to take charge again.

She admits that if she'd married any of her past ex-boyfriends before she met me she'd have given them hell if they'd tried taking her down this route, especially one who earned less than her or the other who was too soft. However my masculinity and increasing dominance seemed to change her mind over time even though in
I never actually set out with this goal in mind myself.

Size and orgasms also do count it seems in swaying the will.

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by Anonymous on Jul 20, 2015 at 7:00 AM

Personally, I'd don't think dominance in the bedroom is a question of feminism or abuse as long as there is mutual respect in your daily life. As long as she admits to agreeing to your demands on her own terms rather then from fear of you I say let the freak flag fly.

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by Anonymous on Aug 19, 2015 at 8:39 AM

Why the fuck do you need to fill the world with even more children? By all means do the BDSM thing - I do - but don't use pregnancy as a control tool! No class!

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