Straight Female / 41
My husband and I were having your typical issues - money problems, lack of intimacy, living more like roommates than husband and wife. Even though we never talked about it, I am sure divorce was on both of our minds. There was just no more spark, and we had grown so far apart.
The company I work for has an EAP - employee assistance program - to seek counseling for those who need it.
I talked my husband into letting me research it, and finding someone objective we can both talk to.
I basically picked a name out of the ones in my company network.
The counselors name was Tom, and both my husband and I liked him from the very first meeting we had with him.
Needless to say, even though he was trained and certified and had probably heard it all, it was hard to talk about intimate sexual stuff since he was still a "stranger".
Ton suggested seeing each of us one-on-one since it might be easier to open up more that way. My husband flatly refused that idea, but I agreed to see Tom on my own.
It was just so easy to open up to Tom even more when we were alone. He seemed to really understand me. After one of my individual sessions with him, he told me that I was his last client for the evening and he asked if I wanted to get a drink. Which was fine - we talked about anything and everything BUT my marriage issues when we went out. I had a really good time. When Tom walked me to my car a bit later on, I realized that things have changed. I realized we had crossed over a client/doctor relationship into something more. We kissed for the first time right there next to my car. The next time I had a private session with him, we talked a little, then just started kissing. His hands were everywhere on me, and I ended up rubbing his hardness before unzipping his pants. His penis was so much bigger than my husbands, and it was flattering that it was so hard becasue of me. I gave him oral sex right there in his office. That started what ended up being a 3 month affair. My "individual" sessions with Tom ended up being less and less talking, and us having more and more sex. Because I had confided in Tom all the sexual issues I have with my husband, he knew exactly what I needed and what I wanted him to do. He did everything for me my husband never would. There was one strech there where I saw Tom 5 days in a row, just for the amazing sex he gave me.
Or course, my husband and I were still seeing him as a couple. There were times where I had seen Tom in the afternoon, and then gone back to his office with my husband an hour or so later. I knew it was so wrong, but it made me feel so alive. One day I was supposed to meet my husband there - but he was running late. Tom and I made out like teenagers until we saw my husbands car pull into the parking lot. We had so much fun.
The affair with Tom gave me more confidence and made me feel so happy. I was able to use those positive feelings and talk to my husband more openly than ever about what was lacking in our sex life. And although my husband cant come cloe to Toms size, he IS trying a lot harder. We just spent an amazing weekend downtown together, and it was probably the best sex my husband and I have had since we first got married.
The spark is there again, and we are closer than ever.
All thanks to my affair with Tom?
The company I work for has an EAP - employee assistance program - to seek counseling for those who need it.
I talked my husband into letting me research it, and finding someone objective we can both talk to.
I basically picked a name out of the ones in my company network.
The counselors name was Tom, and both my husband and I liked him from the very first meeting we had with him.
Needless to say, even though he was trained and certified and had probably heard it all, it was hard to talk about intimate sexual stuff since he was still a "stranger".
Ton suggested seeing each of us one-on-one since it might be easier to open up more that way. My husband flatly refused that idea, but I agreed to see Tom on my own.
It was just so easy to open up to Tom even more when we were alone. He seemed to really understand me. After one of my individual sessions with him, he told me that I was his last client for the evening and he asked if I wanted to get a drink. Which was fine - we talked about anything and everything BUT my marriage issues when we went out. I had a really good time. When Tom walked me to my car a bit later on, I realized that things have changed. I realized we had crossed over a client/doctor relationship into something more. We kissed for the first time right there next to my car. The next time I had a private session with him, we talked a little, then just started kissing. His hands were everywhere on me, and I ended up rubbing his hardness before unzipping his pants. His penis was so much bigger than my husbands, and it was flattering that it was so hard becasue of me. I gave him oral sex right there in his office. That started what ended up being a 3 month affair. My "individual" sessions with Tom ended up being less and less talking, and us having more and more sex. Because I had confided in Tom all the sexual issues I have with my husband, he knew exactly what I needed and what I wanted him to do. He did everything for me my husband never would. There was one strech there where I saw Tom 5 days in a row, just for the amazing sex he gave me.
Or course, my husband and I were still seeing him as a couple. There were times where I had seen Tom in the afternoon, and then gone back to his office with my husband an hour or so later. I knew it was so wrong, but it made me feel so alive. One day I was supposed to meet my husband there - but he was running late. Tom and I made out like teenagers until we saw my husbands car pull into the parking lot. We had so much fun.
The affair with Tom gave me more confidence and made me feel so happy. I was able to use those positive feelings and talk to my husband more openly than ever about what was lacking in our sex life. And although my husband cant come cloe to Toms size, he IS trying a lot harder. We just spent an amazing weekend downtown together, and it was probably the best sex my husband and I have had since we first got married.
The spark is there again, and we are closer than ever.
All thanks to my affair with Tom?
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