Those two weeks weeks of sex whenever I wanted were initiated during a conversation between her and I.
I told her I was unsatisfied with the level of sex in our relationship. There was a period of about six months after our son's birth where we did not have any sex at all. Of course, there was physical recover on her part for the first three, but...
It's been about a year now and sex was barely ever happening and I was meeting rejection more often than not.
Nothing kills a man's confidence more than a woman who repeatedly turns him down. Nothing hurts more to a husband than a wife who becomes physically distant and sexually uninterested.
And she was rejecting me so often I just wanted to stop asking all together, which left me sexually frustrated. There were many times where I asked her to make love, and she told me "Just go masturbate." In a voice that said she couldn't be bothered. I explained there were to things I craved, physical orgasm and physical intimacy, and that her suggestion didn't satisfy both.
Well, I told her if she couldn't keep up with my sexuality- if she couldn't adjust hers to my level: I'd adjust mine to hers. I'd rather be asexual than masturbating and getting rejected all the time.
--She begged me not to do that-- I asked her why. She said a sexless marriage was no marriage at all.
I told her, "our marriage is already sexless. It's extremely unfair that you'd ask me to maintain a high sex drive, without fulfilling it."
Anyway, I told her I couldn't keep putting up with rejection, and that the obvious solution was to let my high sex drive peter out and atrophy. It wasn't doing us any good.
I was constantly asking her and being rejected, both of us were quite frustrated with the whole thing.
We'd both be happy that way, because I wouldn't be disappointed and she wouldn't be nagged.
----So she said---- "What if I match your sexuality?" She offered to do a 2 week trial run, and have sex anytime, anywhere, at my whim.
We made love that night, and it was the best we've had in a long long time.
I didn't want to go overboard, so I didn't ask her to do anything at all the next day and waited till the following night to ask for a blowjob.
She granted my request, as per our agreement.
The next night, I told her I wanted to eat some pussy. She said no. I said you have no choice and forced her to recall her promise. She showered and I ate until she came, then we made love.
The next day I asked her to have sex again. She said "No, but I'll do something else." That blowjob was the beginning of the end.
The next day, having already been rejected for intercourse once (but still physically satisfied) I asked for a blowjob.
She said no.
She went back on her agreement.
Within the first week she rejected me twice. Then once more on the first day of the second week. And again on the second.
I stopped asking, and the rest of the week went by without her initiating a single time.
She agreed to have sex with me whenever I wanted for two weeks, and we only had sex twice. She blew me a few of times. She rejected me as many times as we had sex in that period.
She can go fuck herself, because I'm sure as hell not going to be doing that ever again.
It's clear to me now that she wanted me to maintain my sexuality so that she wouldn't have to feel the pain of rejection like I have all year long.
I don't want her to feel that pain but I'm tired of feeling it myself. So we are going to have an officially sexless marriage.
Until we get divorced.
Because I think that will be coming along soon enough. She is rude, insulting and not supportive of me at all.


