My wife agreed to do whatever I want whenever I want, for a two week period.

Those two weeks weeks of sex whenever I wanted were initiated during a conversation between her and I.

I told her I was unsatisfied with the level of sex in our relationship. There was a period of about six months after our son's birth where we did not have any sex at all. Of course, there was physical recover on her part for the first three, but...

It's been about a year now and sex was barely ever happening and I was meeting rejection more often than not.

Nothing kills a man's confidence more than a woman who repeatedly turns him down. Nothing hurts more to a husband than a wife who becomes physically distant and sexually uninterested.

And she was rejecting me so often I just wanted to stop asking all together, which left me sexually frustrated. There were many times where I asked her to make love, and she told me "Just go masturbate." In a voice that said she couldn't be bothered. I explained there were to things I craved, physical orgasm and physical intimacy, and that her suggestion didn't satisfy both.

Well, I told her if she couldn't keep up with my sexuality- if she couldn't adjust hers to my level: I'd adjust mine to hers. I'd rather be asexual than masturbating and getting rejected all the time.

--She begged me not to do that-- I asked her why. She said a sexless marriage was no marriage at all.

I told her, "our marriage is already sexless. It's extremely unfair that you'd ask me to maintain a high sex drive, without fulfilling it."

Anyway, I told her I couldn't keep putting up with rejection, and that the obvious solution was to let my high sex drive peter out and atrophy. It wasn't doing us any good.

I was constantly asking her and being rejected, both of us were quite frustrated with the whole thing.

We'd both be happy that way, because I wouldn't be disappointed and she wouldn't be nagged.



----So she said---- "What if I match your sexuality?" She offered to do a 2 week trial run, and have sex anytime, anywhere, at my whim.


We made love that night, and it was the best we've had in a long long time.

I didn't want to go overboard, so I didn't ask her to do anything at all the next day and waited till the following night to ask for a blowjob.

She granted my request, as per our agreement.

The next night, I told her I wanted to eat some pussy. She said no. I said you have no choice and forced her to recall her promise. She showered and I ate until she came, then we made love.

The next day I asked her to have sex again. She said "No, but I'll do something else." That blowjob was the beginning of the end.

The next day, having already been rejected for intercourse once (but still physically satisfied) I asked for a blowjob.

She said no.

She went back on her agreement.

Within the first week she rejected me twice. Then once more on the first day of the second week. And again on the second.

I stopped asking, and the rest of the week went by without her initiating a single time.

She agreed to have sex with me whenever I wanted for two weeks, and we only had sex twice. She blew me a few of times. She rejected me as many times as we had sex in that period.

She can go fuck herself, because I'm sure as hell not going to be doing that ever again.

It's clear to me now that she wanted me to maintain my sexuality so that she wouldn't have to feel the pain of rejection like I have all year long.

I don't want her to feel that pain but I'm tired of feeling it myself. So we are going to have an officially sexless marriage.

Until we get divorced.

Because I think that will be coming along soon enough. She is rude, insulting and not supportive of me at all.

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by Anonymous on Aug 20, 2015 at 3:29 PM

When I say she isn't supportive, I mean in terms of career and interests.

I have made and am making sacrifices for her careers and interests, while she insults me about mine, and shows me just how little faith she has in me. On top of that, she frequently calls me a bad father, which cuts deep.

I would never call her a bad mom, and I would never criticize her hopes and dreams.

I don't think I should have to live with someone who does so to me.

Ultimately our marriage is already dying. A divorce will be a merciful end to a painful situation.

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by Anonymous on Aug 21, 2015 at 2:16 PM

This was very sad to read. I've never been married but I've definitely had times when a relationship died and it nothing shatters a man's confidence like being rejected constantly. I think the worst part is watching the great thing you had slowly die. Better to just rip it off fast like a piece of tape.

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by Anonymous on Aug 27, 2015 at 8:01 PM

not that your situation is funny, but it makes me laugh when women act this way... Before marriage they worship your dick like they can't get enough of you in their mouth and pussy.

Then they get a ring and dry the fuck up.

Are all women like this?

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by Anonymous on Aug 27, 2015 at 11:07 PM

#3 most but not all, some still go 1 to 3 times a week after 30 years of marriage, so I would agree if she is acting like this and cant even keep her word to you then dump her ass and get with a younger one who can keep up with you, yes it is a cliche but if your in need alot so is a younger pussy

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by Anonymous on Aug 31, 2015 at 12:28 PM

I lived a marriagfe like that for a while. It won't get better, if you're not happy get out now.

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by Anonymous on Sep 2, 2015 at 12:18 AM

What you should do is take her out on a date, get a hotel for the night. Take her out to dinner and then go to the hotel bar and get her drunk, and then take her to the room and then get two guys from the bar to help you to the room and you can strip her clothes off and let the other two guys get her worked up, and after they have gotten there use out of her, you can follow up with her.
Then the next morning you ask her what happened to her, and then tell her that you two was at the bar and she left and then when you got to the room you found her on the bed with two guys fucking her.
Maybe she'll feel bad and then try to make things better.

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by Anonymous on Sep 2, 2015 at 5:11 PM

I lived like this for years. I tried EVERYTHING with my wife to get her to put out.

Agreed, it likely won't get better.

Getting divorced wasn't fun but I'm a hell of a lot happier.

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