As a rising sophomore college student I spent the summer in Rome. While I was there I met a guy, also from the States, and we hit it off. I feel he took advantage of my vulnerability and took my virginity. He not only took my virginity but he also took advantage of the situation and took me anal. When I returned home I came home pregnant, which is half the problem, but the other half is that I feel totally given to him seeing as he had sex with me like that. My girlfriend who was there with me thinks that I am out of luck, we were not here, I am over 18, getting a butt f!!!! is not supposed to be that big of deal, but it is to me.

I think he should deal with the consequences of his actions and marry me. How am I supposed to go to my parents and tell them I am pregnant with no man to show for it?

Am I wrong here? A man takes a vulnerable woman, takes her virginity, takes her in anal sex, gets her pregnant and she is on her own? Is this fair? How am I supposed to go on? What kind of a future am I supposed to have? How can I possibly go forward with another man? I am going on four months pregnant now and all he says is send him pictures of the baby and when he comes back after finishing his degree he will come see the baby. I can't hide this from my parents any more. I can't believe I don't have any say in this.