43 year old female in the same vote.... 20 years and only sex once or twice a month. I have had extra marital affairs just to get satisfaction! He doesn't know that his wife is fucking other men in our matrimonial bed while he works 14 hour days.
Hell, that's no big deal if your hubby's not living up to his marital duties. Just keep it to yourself, (And all of us here on this sight.) Tell us the details. My wife has fucked other men in OUR bed. I work out of town a lot, and when I'm gone, sometimes she just needs some good sex. She's had three different lovers to fill the void when I'm away for extended periods of time. They think that they are SOOO sneaky. But I know every detail, and I'm fine with her getting what she needs when I can't be there.
I'll love to have sex with a married man...