Lesbian Female / 23
My 'best friend' asked me to live with her and her husband. She and I have messed around since we were kids and messed around when we were in college. By messing around we are into each other completely. She and I have never had a problem kissing or touching each other or being with each other. We share everything about ourselves with each other, everything.
She got married to a guy she met from work. He is established and a real catch, he makes a lot of money and she wants me to live with them and share. She told me full stop that she wants me to live with them and sleep with her, which I know sounds like a lot, but she and I have never been apart, we grew up next door and like I said above, we messed around and we have slept with each other. P.S., the last time we messed around was just two weeks ago, that is when she asked me to come live with them and just come and sleep with her.
Honestly, she knows I am all hers, always have been, even when we were in the second grade. Now that we are on our own she wants us to live together, and she told me she and I would share the same room. She wants a commitment ceremony so everything is above board and out in the open. I know I am lesbian, but she has always been bi, always with me, but she has to have a man in her life. I have always known that.
I am supposed to accept that she is married to her husband and she wants me to accept him as my husband as well. I have only had sex with him twice, and only because she was there and asked me to have sex with him. If we live together then she expects me to go with him if he wants me. At dinner he told me that he is ok with us living together and living our lives out as we had talked about growing up. He knew about us when he got married, but now it is about living it.
I have never had sex with him alone. He is 43.
I have never heard of this type of a relationship working long term, for her and me it will work, but what about him?
We are walking down a path and there is no way to see ahead. I am putting my trust in him, because she trusts him.
Honestly it is blind trust, and I have never been one to follow blindly.
She got married to a guy she met from work. He is established and a real catch, he makes a lot of money and she wants me to live with them and share. She told me full stop that she wants me to live with them and sleep with her, which I know sounds like a lot, but she and I have never been apart, we grew up next door and like I said above, we messed around and we have slept with each other. P.S., the last time we messed around was just two weeks ago, that is when she asked me to come live with them and just come and sleep with her.
Honestly, she knows I am all hers, always have been, even when we were in the second grade. Now that we are on our own she wants us to live together, and she told me she and I would share the same room. She wants a commitment ceremony so everything is above board and out in the open. I know I am lesbian, but she has always been bi, always with me, but she has to have a man in her life. I have always known that.
I am supposed to accept that she is married to her husband and she wants me to accept him as my husband as well. I have only had sex with him twice, and only because she was there and asked me to have sex with him. If we live together then she expects me to go with him if he wants me. At dinner he told me that he is ok with us living together and living our lives out as we had talked about growing up. He knew about us when he got married, but now it is about living it.
I have never had sex with him alone. He is 43.
I have never heard of this type of a relationship working long term, for her and me it will work, but what about him?
We are walking down a path and there is no way to see ahead. I am putting my trust in him, because she trusts him.
Honestly it is blind trust, and I have never been one to follow blindly.
