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I'm not in the same situation butbits refreshing to see this same thing happening to women when "dirty old men" are usually blamed for this sort of thing. Attraction isn't a bad thing, especially when someone is going out of their way to project it but you have the always present concern of crossing that line and breaking the law. The safe thing is to keep a distance and admire from afar but it sounds like this girl can read you and probably won't stop till she's convinced you to reciprocate. I would certainly understand not being able to resist. Maybe you should find a good time for a one on one talk and get a feel for what she really wants.
Thank you that is some sound advice, I have been at my wits end thinking if what to do, She was here again today and as usual she flirted with me again, And yes I think you are right she can read me all too well I think, She is getting so brazen now today she wore a deliberately short skirt bent over in front of me knowing I could clearly see her backside she saw to it that I had a clear view giggled then left the room smiling at me, I think you are right I shall have to have a sit down talk with her and talk to her on an adult level, I know she is fully aware if what she is doing and she always makes sure no one else is in the room so she isn't stupid, My attraction to her is causing me so much guilt that I have to say something to her and hopefully get her to stop flirting with me after all to her I am an old woman and I fail to see how I can be that attractive to her, I tried at first to put it down to a crush but her behaviour is way beyond that and definitely sexual in nature, Thank you again for your advice. Lydia (not my real name)
Lydia(not your real name),
If it were a young guy flirting with you like this what would your reaction have been ? Age is but a number and if the feeling is mutual I say, go for it !!
Besides, if your are already turned on just by the sight and scent of her can you imagine how turned on you are going to be the next time she flashes you without any panties. She is probably just as turned on as you are. Two can play the same game, if all else fails play her own game in return and see what happens.
#3 Thank you I think if it were a male of the same age I could handle that by gently rebuffing him, But this girl as I am sure she is aware has me dazzled like a rabbit in the headlights of a car and I am sure she enjoys it too, I plan to have a sit down chat with her this weekend and see what she has to say about it, Although she is very young if I see she has an old head on young shoulders I might be tempted even more to take things further, I can't just leave things as they are as my attraction to her is getting harder to resist, I know in her way she is trying to seduce me and I must admit it is working as I think about her a lot of the time and shamefully I have masturbated while thinking about her, If she was older there would be no problem I guess my much more moral side is holding me back from anything that might happen between us but that side is weakening and I'm afraid that soon my moral breaks will be off, You asked what I'd do if she flashed at me without panties on I'm afraid I would at that point cave in and take her to my bed it is bad enough while she us wearing panties let alone without them, But I shall clear the air one way or another this weekend with her, Thank you again. Lydia
I want to tell u about an older woman i flirt with tease and evenn set it up for her to catch me masturbating
This is actually a very interesting scenario. A couple things though.
do you have a strong history of being attracted to woman?
If so, does your daughter know? Your daughter could have said something that intrigued this girl enough to induce this behavior. It is possible that it is just her toying with you to see what you'll to. On the other hand she could just find you irresistible. As for crossing the line, that's a tough call. there are people that are quite mature at that age, and some that aren't, and couldn't be trusted to make rash decisions like this in an adult manner.. My personal opinion is this. If you are both mature and consenting then play it by ear. The age thing really means nothing unless one of you is incapable of making an adult decision. people that are 30 and 50 are together all the time.. even more drastic than that. I would like to know more.. em ail is. havingfun503 at ya hoo
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Someone needs to be the adult in the room and that means you. No exception or reprieve.
One of the things I thought of when reading your note is the British film Fish Tank. It’s a hard watch, but it’s about a teen girl who starts acting up and is like you, living in an all female environment.
If you have no man around you, and someone finally starts paying sexual attention to you, of course you’re going to react. However, you are an adult and she’s a minor.
Nip this in the bud before sun dress season starts. (My personal Kryptonite.) I’m sure lots of teen boys will be on this web site pretending to be lesbians but not one of them will ask you ‘Is the orgasm you might have worth the sleepless nights for the rest of your life wondering if the police will knock on your door.’
Okay, practical steps: Tell her it’s great that she’s growing up and part of that is the wonderful and scary thing about becoming sexual. Of it’s flattering that she trusts you with this but just because you’re in view doesn’t mean this is a good idea.
Tell her it’s okay to wait and plan and try on new ideas to see how they fit. But sex isn’t going to happen between you so she needs to stop accidentally / on purpose flashing you. Tell her you don’t have to grow up this very instant.
You need to end this otherwise you'll be finding her underwear in your purse, et cetera. You're the grown up -- be it.
Okay... How'd it go?
You mentioned its a problem its only a problem it you make it one, she obviously wants, to put it bluntly to fuck with you, after reading your confession you are going to have to make the first move, give her bottom a playful smack as you are passing her, if she reacts badly just apologise, I sure she wont, I was in the same situation with my niece, get the word problem out of your mind, go for it you both want it NK
Factually, beyond dispute & quite frankly, liberalism is a mental disease that obviously afflicts many. That stated, your parents apparently didn't raise you appropriately if you indeed believe that being attracted to one the same gender as you is normal. Horrificly & Hideously, you state your queerdom here as if it were some sort of natural state. In summation, all that can be concluded is that you stubbornly remain to behave as some type of PERVERT. Sadly, you are knowingly clueless on how to enjoy being fulfilled by the supreme sexual bliss a Man could freely bestow upon you.