My parents were of the opinion that it was important for a young woman to learn how to please a man sexually, and it was the responsility of the parents to teach her. If I wanted an allowance, if I wanted to go out with my friends, if I wanted anything I could only get by asking my parents, I had to convince my father to allow it.

Wear something sexy or sometimes nothing at all, sit on his lap, ask for it nicely. See how far I have to go before he says yes, even if that meant having sex with him and still not getting the DS I wanted.

From my parents I learned how to give blowjobs, deepthroat, and safely take anal. I was taught to convince someone to have sex with me when I wanted to get off instead of just masturbating. I learned to use my arousal to inform my actions, to make it easier to get myself in the mood and act like I wanted to seduce and have sex with someone I would find repulsive otherwise.

I regret having sex with my father. I regret that I didn't know that was wrong of my parents for so long. My older sister still has sex with him, she doesn't think it's wrong at all.

But I don't regret what I learned, and I use it every day. I could have gotten into porn or become a prostitute and done pretty well, but I got a job I like right out of highschool to fund college and an apartment, and any time I need a little extra cash or something else I can't afford, it's easy to convince someone to give it to me.

I'm not a lesbian or bisexual, but I've been practicing on girls too. Girls don't react the same way as guys, especially straight girls, but the right words, the right touch, can still get me pretty far. Guys usually jump for what I have to offer unless they're gold star gay, but girls usually need more of a connection, more trust.

Guys and girls who are into other girls already think about having sex with women, so when I flirt with them, present it as an option, they're in the right mindset. I can get them to want me, and once they want me I can usually convince them to do what I want, and more often than not I'll reward them for it.

Straight girls don't generally think about having sex with another woman all the time, and if they do they might not be as straight as they think, so my usual approach won't work. I need to make them think about it first. If I can convince her to 'experiment' with me, usually with a bit of drink, show her a good time, show her what I can do for her, what I can do to her, how good it feels, then she'll be thinking about it.

Even if she doesn't think about it with other girls, she'll be thinking about it when I talk to her, and because we've already had sex there's a connection between us already. Then she's in the right mindset and I can get her to do things for me.

Plus, even though I'm not really attracted to girls myself, convincing another straight girl to have sex with me is fun because it's difficult, and because I know the whole time we're together she's questioning herself, trying to figure out if it's just me, just the situation, or if she's really bisexual and didn't realize it before. And after we've done it, I'm the one person who could make people doubt her heterosexuality.

I don't agree with how they did it, but my parents gave me tools that will make my life easier as long as I can use them, and I fully intend to use them to get everything I want.