Out of economic necessity I moved in with him. I now have three kids and am totally economically dependent on him. He likes it that way, says it is the way it has always been. Woman in the house with kids, man working. If he had his way he would get me pregnant again, he wants me to have five kids or more. He is one of seven kids. I have a lot of work with just three, I don't know how I would handle more.

At times I feel I should be working but he won't allow it. His mother was stay at home and that's what he wants from me. She is of a different generation and culture, and she came from El Salvador where women have lots of kids and stay home.

My youngest is three and he is pressuring me into another one.