My boyfriend and I are kind of the opposite of what people expect from a couple. I'm taller, and generally I guess I'd be described as a tomboy, or butch, I wear clothes that are comfortable to me but others would think are boring or masculine, keep my hair shorter, I'm stronger than he is.

He's shorter, thinner, very conscious of his appearance, prefers his hair longer, wears makeup routinely. He's sensitive, often overtly emotional. He wears clothes that are brighter, often ignoring comfort for style, sometimes outright cross dressing. He's bisexual.

People who spot us on the street have thought I'm the boyfriend and he's the girlfriend, or that we're two gay men. People have asked us if we're transgender, which we'd considered but no, we're comfortable with our respective genders. People think I'm a lesbian and I'm only with him because he's feminine, but also no, I'm straight and I'm attracted to masculine guys as well.

I'm not going to pretend we have an ordinary relationship. If there's a stereotypical boyfriend/girlfriend situation you can think of, I'm more likely to take the boyfriend's role in that situation. Even to the point that soon, I plan on proposing to him.

On a sexual note, because hell that's what the site is for, right? Being sensitive and overt carries over to sex, too. He cannot keep quiet unless I cover his mouth (or gag him.) He likes to be penetrated, whether that's by a toy or a finger, and I can get him off by fingering him or with my tongue fairly easily. He likes to wear sexy outfits and lingerie, whether they're men's or women's, and he likes to give me a show regardless whether we're doing anything or not.

Right now he's sitting with me on the couch, leaning back against the armrest with his legs up on my lap. He just got out of the shower, so he has his hair wrapped in a towel and he's wearing one of my shirts, a bit too big for him, and a pair of boy shorts. He had a manipedi a couple days ago, and his nails are still noticeably shiny. I think he literally just took a selfie as I typed that.

After I submit this confession, I'm going to tickle him until I have him pinned in a compromising position, then I'm going to kiss him and see if he's up for more than that. If so, I think I'm going to suck him off while I finger his ass. With any luck we'll both have to take another shower.

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by Anonymous on Apr 15, 2016 at 11:19 PM

Do you ever peg him? Or have toys just for his ass? In your position I'd probably buy a bunch of different toys and a harness and just say "hey, maybe not today, but all of these are going up your ass eventually."

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by Anonymous on Apr 16, 2016 at 11:06 AM

I haven't pegged him yet but I've been considering it. We don't really have many toys, and the ones we do have are for both of us. I do want to get some plugs and dildos just to use on him though.

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by Anonymous on Jul 14, 2016 at 7:03 PM

You guys have it made. Not many "different" people hook up and have a great relationship. My wife and I are that lucky. We started dating when I was 23 and she 29. We both crossdress, which came out after about 2 months of dating. My shaved legs and armpits made her suspicious, LOL! What really makes it work is she is 6 ft tall and I'm 5'6". We have been married 21 years after dating for 3. We share clothes and shoes, altho we both have an "other sex" wardrobe. I look very passable as a woman, and she looks quite handsome as a dude. And even in my 5" heels, she's still taller. I love having my pretend man and it makes me feel so feminine! And she's not shy about using her strap-on! And we almost never get 'clocked' as crossdressers when we're out in public. We have a 19 yo daughter who knows about our 'hobbies' and is so totally cool about it.

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