I'm getting married to an amazing woman at the end of the year. Unfortunately things in the sex area have slowed right down to next to nothing. When we met 4 years ago we were at it like the proverbial rabbits. This went on until about a year ago.

She was insatiable as far as sex was concerned. She wanted it every night and she knew how to get me going. This was amazing as I had not long finished from a long sexless relationship. But this last year she has changed into a totally different person. We've spoken about it a few times but she thinks I'm just moaning at her.

So anyway I've started to take notice of other women. To the point where I had at one point signed up to a couple of sex hook up sites. And omg things now for me at least are wild. She don't know and I've no intention of her finding out.

So far I've met three different single women purely for sex and two different couples. With one couple the guy was bisexual and he asked how I feel about it. I was happy to give it a go. We all played with each other and I have to admit to loving it.

I've now started to visit a sauna that hosts swinging nights. Its difficult being there as a single guy but last night I hooked up in the steam room with a single woman. We chatted for a few minutes and soon I was fucking her from behind over a bench.

I'm totally hooked. It's difficult to get out much but when I do I love to visit the sauna. I still love my soon to be wife and on the very rare times we do have sex it's amazing. But for now I'm still getting it where ever I can.