I am just now learning how to make myself shoot cum. All my life, aside from occasionally when I was younger, my cum just sort of fell out. I do cum a lot, but I never had any pressure behind it.

Well I learned how to do it. And I learned when my wife was sucking me off. We didn't have lots of time and I needed to hurry. Well hurrying made it take longer.

I always thought you stop your cum the same way you stop your pee. Just sort of clinch your muscles. I was wrong. It's the opposite.

You have to use the muscles that make you pee harder. You won't pee, don't worry, just force yourself to try. It blocks the way for your cum.

Then when you do cum, it will shoot out. Just try it if you have that issue. It takes a little practice, but not much, you should shoot some your first time.

I would have loved to read this 15 years ago. Hopefully, someone gets use from it.