My husband and I like sex. A lot. He enjoys when I'm with other guys. Also A lot. And so do I to be honest. I'm not sure why but he confessed that there were two times he felt humiliated and upset seeing me have sex with someone else. I mean he's seen me with so many men why would it bother him?. Threesomes, foursomes, one guy right after the other all night til my pussy was raw and he loved it every time. He even loved it the time I was riding his best friend and a guy from his work I'd barely even met shoved his dick right up my ass without so much as a hello while I was cumming and fucked my like a rag doll.

But there was these two times. The first one he brought up was one time when I was on my knees in front of him at our house, blowing this muscle head guy with a huge dick right in front of him I knew from the gym. I wasn't even naked. I was just settled in on my knees and butt while the guy stood over me. My husband was sitting right there I figured loving it. I pleasured the guy for a long long time before I made him cum gulping it down like I always do. I loved it, servicing a strong dominating guy like that. My husband told me months later that he hated it, felt like I was being used and disrespected and that he felt like a loser. I didn't know what to say or do, guys always use me, that's the point. I think it just came down to not liking the guy or something.

A week later while talking about that situation again he said he was also hurt by and he confessed that the best time of my life hurt him deeply. My boss took us on vacation for a week to the Caribbean. He had grown up there, knew a lot of people, was really comfortable and fit right in. My husband being white didn't fit in at all. Even so, I mean my boss brought us so we could have fun and fuck. My husband was all for it before hand. I'd been fucking my boss for a couple of years already it wasn't anything unusual. What happened was being away from home, my boss and I were intimate in public.

The first day I spent the night with my boss while my husband stayed in our room which he was fine with. The next day on the beach was when things went bad I guess. I was wearing a revealing bikini and my boss was holding me, touching me, very loving and sexual. My husband saw people looking seeing his hands touching my breasts and resting between my legs and the contrast of my little white body against his large black body stood out starkly on the beach. In his mind everyone was watching his wife display intimacy with another man to his humiliation. He described it as it appeared I was my boss's wife and he was just some guy.

I had no idea. I loved the whole week. I sucked and fucked my boss all week. Fell asleep in his arms every night. He took me out alone a few nights to dance and meet other men he was friendly with who truth be told fucked me silly. I told my hub every story and detail and he got to watch my boss fuck me a few times and even got to see me doubled teamed by a couple of my boss's hung friends while he and my boss watched.

Best vacation ever and two years later I find out he was miserable and jealous the whole time we were there only because of the intimacy my boss and I showed each other in front of other people. I look back and think of the last BJ I gave my boss that week on the ride home from the airport swallowing his load just before dropping him off then joining my husband in the front seat all happy and not having a clue he was upset.

He insists I can still fuck my boss and blow guys or whatever. He says that he doesn't really get why those occasions bothered him I just hope he doesn't feel that way again. I did tell him to speak up next time so I can change things up so he doesn't feel hurt. Things shouldn't be so complicated.

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by Anonymous on Jun 7, 2016 at 2:22 PM

I don't have much of a possible explanation for the muscle head guy from the gym. Maybe your husband has an incident in his past history (childhood/teen years perhaps) where someone bigger/stronger than himself took something away from him that he really enjoyed. Maybe it's that classic scenario of the muscle guy at the beach kicking sand in the face of the smaller, weaker guy and taking the girlfriend. I don't really know, I'm just guessing and I'm not a psychiatrist or a therapist.

The second guy, your boss, might be a little easier to explain. Your husband explained it to you, "In his mind everyone was watching his wife display intimacy with another man to his humiliation." Mind-blowing sex with a man other than your husband is one thing but when you started getting "intimate" with your boss in public, even though you didn't view it that way, it looks like your husband did. He loves you and he wants to be the one you are "intimate" with, that's how he separates your loving relationship with him from the mind-blowing sex you have with other men.

It may sound weird but the mind works in strange ways. It sounds like you're trying to do the right thing by paying more attention to your husband and urging him to let you know when he doesn't feel right about a situation with another guy you're fucking.

I wish I was 20 years younger and had a hot wife like you!

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by Anonymous on Jun 7, 2016 at 5:16 PM

or maybe he was jealous because you were fucking a n****r.

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by Anonymous on Jun 8, 2016 at 1:00 AM

Sounds like it's time to knock off the swinging slut life and become the woman of your husband's dreams for him and him alone. If either partner in such a marriage has any problems whatsoever it's time for the swing thing to stop. Surely there will be more than the two incidents, hubby will probably tell you more if you ask or press him on the issue. He hit the nail on the head with the intimacy thing which tells me he isn't ok at all with what you are doing. You two are on the road to ruin as it is now so change your ways and recommit yourselves to each other alone.

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by Anonymous on Jun 8, 2016 at 10:55 AM

Thanks for the advise guys. Except for the second guy. You're ridiculous.

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by Anonymous on Jun 8, 2016 at 12:13 PM

I think #1 is spot on with the intimacy issue but I'd like to add that maybe, possibly, the two are related also by the issue of control.

If he is weaker than the muscle guy, he feels beta, not alpha. And especially with your boss, well in a sense he controls your money coming in, your job status (can fire you), he's probably more successful.

So I'd say overall, even though I'm an average joe, I'd guess that he doesn't like feeling beta or not in control. It's weird but you can still feel like an alpha while your girl is with another man sexually, in the sense that you are king she is queen and all other men can only wish they had her for life and can fck her when he says so.

Muscle head and boss would still be fcking you even if he said stop.

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by Anonymous on Jun 8, 2016 at 2:38 PM

Speaking from a man shares his own wife I agree with #1. I may let you have sex with my wife if I think you deserve it but you're certainly not going to play"bf/gf" out in public and sleep with him every night while I sit in my room. If that was the deal or the vacation I'd say fuck that it's not worth it. I've noticed a problem with other couples who enjoy bringing in many new guys. The boundaries start to get blurry and the wife becomes used to so many guys and loses that intimacy and unique relationship with their husband to the point where the husband can no longer stop it or changes things. It's no way to have a kinky marriage if it becomes much less a marriage and more of free prostitution.

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by Anonymous on Jun 9, 2016 at 7:27 AM

I put myself in his shoes and can see why he felt bad about that vacation and can't believe how insensitive I was and yeah I agree boundaries were definitely blurred. I can also see what you mean about the free prostitution thing. I've actually felt like a prostitute at times to be honest although in a playful way but right now I feel pretty bad. My stomach is killing me I feel like I've hurt my husband terribly. This thing started out as simple fun but now I don't know, I think its time to focus on my husband. Maybe that's what he's getting at.

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by Anonymous on Jun 12, 2016 at 5:32 AM

This is just a suggestion. I know there is a difference between being a voyeur and being cuckold. Some men don't mind watching their women just have sex. There is no intimacy in when it just the act. But there is when intimacy (kissing, hugging, PDA, etc). That's being cucked and humiliated. For instance, I dated one woman who just screw whoever and walk away and come back, no kissing, hugging, cuddling. She was just like a man. I enjoyed being with her because she still made me feel like I was the only man. But then, I dated and married someone else, she would go and have sex with other guys, but would be intimate like they were her man and I was some weak man, needless to say, I left her. It all boils down to she knew I didn't like the intimacy she displayed because it made me look like I was nothing. Where as the other woman, made me out to be her everything. Keep the intimacy for your man and not for the boy toys. Like I said,just a suggestion.

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