During the day I am professional, self assured, assertive, all the things we are supposed to do now. But at home I am a submissive wife, I accept my place. My husband is a strong, quiet dominant type, just the man I need.

When I say 'yes sir', I mean 'yes sir'. I call him 'master' most of the time, because he is my master in life. Of course I take care of all the housework, a woman's work is never done. I iron his boxers to show him how much he means to me. I am a good cook. It gives me great pleasure to host and to show our friends, neighbors and acquaintances what a good wife I am, a good hostess, cook, housekeeper. I enjoy being the woman of the house.

From the first day I met him he owned me.

Personally I think many marriages fail because there is deep misunderstanding and confusion of the woman's place in life and the man's place in life. We were born to this, if we were meant to be men, we would have come equipped as men. Our bodies and minds are designed to fit to the man, literally to couple with him, to become one with him. When I came to accept this idea, I became a woman, and when I accepted my man I became his wife. I really don't understand why all of a sudden this is supposed to be bad. I'm sure many lonely divorced women are asking themselves what went wrong. If they look into themselves they will see what went wrong, they forgot their place.