I am living a nightmare. My husband was arrested and charged with prostitution. He worked for a valet service, but really it was a male prostitution ring. I have also been approached by a woman who showed me where he had signed several loans from their business. I don't know what the money was for, I never saw it. The total is lot. And its legally owed.

My life stopped and I ran into the arms of my boss. He is 55 and I have slept with him. I am not a saint, I was cheating on my husband by sleeping with my boss, but that is in no way equal to what my husband was doing. I have a screwed up relationship with my boss, it is a lot based on sex, but there is more. I had contemplated divorce, but was scared to ask for a divorce. Not now, I want a divorce, I don't want to ever see that man again.

My boss will pay for my divorce, but on the condition that I move in with him. I told him I felt he was buying me, and he said he sure was, he was paying for me and he expected me to go to him in the divorce.

There is no money to pay any of those loans. Even if my husband borrowed the money, I owe it too. This means bankruptcy. Thank God I have my job. I am going to be on the street so the only place I can go is to my boss. And he gets what he wants.